Tolerated, but not celebrated!

"Tolerated, but not celebrated"

"I want to be celebrated and not tolerated," said my mama.

Many of us have been in those relationships where we were tolerated. We were not loved or cherished. We allowed boy/girlfriends to push us to the back burner. We get upset and pissed, but we encourage this behavior and disrespect. My friend called, and she was crying about her boyfriend. He does not spend time with her, and he does not introduce her as his girlfriend. He does not have a problem sleeping over her house. Her question is, "What did I do wrong?"
Word of Knowledge:
You must be whole and happy with yourself before you enter into a relationship. You will not have to depend on someone else to make you happy. "Love aint suppose to hurt." I am older and a little more wiser. My future man should love to have me on his arm. He will not be ashamed of me. I am his Baby!!!!! I understand that you have a professional life and respect your grind. He is trying to secure a future. Remember to give your baby some of your time. Ladies, if you love and respect yourself, he will see a diamond girl.
Love

5 Days Until V-Day!!!!!!!!!!!!

5 Days Until V-Day!!!!

I can not believe it.  Valentine's Day is almost here.  I am still single.  Around this time of the year, I feel lonely and sad, because I do not have anyone special in my life to share this day.  I am usually spending V-day sitting in my funk and wishing a chocolate, sexy man would give me gifts.  The next day, I go to the store and buy cheap Valentine candy. This is a dangerous cycle...LOL....

This year 2011, I refuse to be in my funk. I am beautiful, intelligent, saved, and wonderful.  There is a man out there for this curvy chick.  I am single, but I am not alone.  I have a loving family, and supportive friends around me.